The Friend No One Needs: Addiction
I’m going to describe a person and I want you to imagine having this person in your life. When you…
Addiction doesn’t just impact the person using — it reshapes relationships, families, and the very structure of daily life. In Addiction & Recovery, I share lived experience from loving a partner who was in active addiction, navigating relapse cycles, and eventually supporting him through long-term sobriety. These posts explore the emotional toll addiction takes on loved ones, what early recovery actually looks like, the fear, the hope, the confusion, and the slow rebuilding of trust. You’ll also find guidance on boundaries, self-care, understanding addictive behavior, and supporting someone through treatment. Whether you’re loving someone in addiction, living with the aftermath, or trying to understand recovery from the outside, this category offers honesty, compassion, and real-world insight rooted in experience — not theory.
I’m going to describe a person and I want you to imagine having this person in your life. When you…
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